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Breaking Soul Ties by Elizabeth Eberhard

Updated: Mar 28

Breaking ungodly soul and spirit ties:

The strongest Biblical reference for these ties are found in:

1 Samuel 18:1 “Now when he finished speaking to Saul, the soul of

Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his

own soul.”

In the Strong’s concordance the word 'knit' is #7194 qashar and its

definition is: "to bind, make a conspiracy join together, knit, stronger,

work treason together."

David and Jonathan had a distinctive soul tie together, a connection/tie

between both of them that was spiritual and a good, fruitful connection

through friendship.

In scripture there are other types of Godly ties between people:

Genesis 2:24 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and

be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”

Joined Strong’s #1692 'dabaq' meaning: to cling, cleave, keep close

Ephesians 5:30-31 “For we are members of His body, of His flesh and

of His bones. For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother

and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

Joined #4347 'proskollao' meaning: to glue to, to cleave to

Here in these scriptures we have the ties between the physical,

emotional, and spiritual aspects of a husband and a wife.

1 Chronicles 12:17 “And David went out to meet them, and answered

and said to them, ‘If you have come peaceably to me to help me, my

heart will be united with you; but if to betray me to my enemies, since

there is no wrong in my hands, may the God of our fathers look and

bring judgment.”

United # 3162 'yachad' meaning : unitedness, alike, at all once, both,

likewise, only, altogether, withal

A tie between hearts of those who are friends with those who are in

agreement with others.

Colossians 2:2: “That their hearts may be encouraged, being knit

together in love, and attaining to all riches of the full assurance of

understanding, to the knowledge of the mystery of God, both of the

Father and of Christ.

Knit together # 4822 'sumbibazo' meaning: to join together, to consider,

to teach.Connections between believers to encourage one another and to

teach and learn together of God both Father and Christ.

Acts 1:14 “These all continued with one accord in prayer and

supplication, with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with

His brothers.”

With one accord # 3661 'homothumadon' is an compound word of

homou and thumos meaning: unanimously - with one accord (mind)

having the same desire/passion.In this context Mary and His brethren came to one accord in prayer and supplication.

Soul/Spiritual ties can serve many functions:

They can tie spirits/souls together in their friendships, between a

married couple, and with the brethren in prayer. But they can draw people together, for example, soul ties between fornicators can draw a woman to a man whom, in the natural realm, she would not normally go to. In the demonic world, an unholy spiritual or soul tie can serve as a bridge between two people connecting one person who is innocent to

the ungodliness of another person. For instance, in some soul/spiritual

ties, they can also influence another person through manipulation, control or other means that they can be completely unaware of.

There are many ungodly spiritual ties:

There can be ungodly ties to inanimate objects, things like sex

images, objects or fetishes. In Hosea 4:17 "Ephraim is joined to idols; leave him alone!"

Also in 1 Corinthians 6:16 Paul writes, “Or do you not know that he

who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For the “the two,” He

says, “ shall become one flesh.”

In Genesis 34:1-3: “Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had

born to Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land. And when

Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her,

he took her and lay with her, and violated her. His soul was strongly

attracted to Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the young

woman and spoke kindly to the young woman.” This is also an

example of a ungodly spiritual tie between Dinah and Shechem where

he raped her.

These ungodly ties are not always sexual, believers can be unequally

yoked with unbelievers. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 says, “Do not be unequally yoked together with

unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness?

And what communion has light with darkness?”

Also there can be a joining together because of an oath. This type of

spiritual tie could be godly or ungodly. In Numbers 30:2 “If a man

makes a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by some

agreement, he shall not break his word; he shall do according to all

that proceeds out of his mouth.” The word bind means #631 'asar' to tie, bind, imprison

Silver Cord

In Ecclesiastes 12:6 it states “Remember your Creator before the

silver cord is loosed”. A silver cord is a way the soul of a person can

leave their body (often called astral projection). For example, have you

ever gone through a trauma and felt like you were floating above your

body or even going somewhere else? Or while dreaming you can

have dreams of going to other places, dimensions or even time zones?

While your body is at rest in bed, your soul can be far off. In some instances

may have parts of our soul that are doing things that we are completely unaware of. If this activity is happening and not orchestrated by Our Father God, this is an occult activity.

Where may we be connected to a spiritual/soul tie?

*Family- parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts/uncles, cousins

anyone you knew

*This can also be with those that have passed on or even with those from previous


*Spouse (and former spouses), children, grandchildren,

nephews/nieces, sons/daughters (in laws)

* Sexual partners, girl/boyfriends; homosexual relationships

* Friends-especially close and confidants

*Childhood playmates, school mates

*Prayer partners and anyone in authority over you in a church or

ministry situation

*Work colleagues and managers- anyone having authority over you in a work


Other less obvious possibilities:

*Hospital/Medical Staff: Doctors, Nurses, paramedics, ambulance

crew- anyone who attended you in sickness, following an accident, while going through childbirth, especially if the incident related to severe shock or trauma

*Anyone who has attended you in a personal capacity: Hairdresser,

personal trainer, dentist, chiropractor, osteopath, chiropodist

*Blood / Organ Donor If you received a donation of blood, bone

marrow or a human organ, there may be a spiritual/soul tie to the

donor, even if they died to release the donation.

Some symptoms of an ungodly spirit/soul ties:

● Obsessing with a person in our thoughts

● Taking on the traits of another person

● They are in our dreams, thought or fantasies

● Remaining in an abusive situation

Prayer of Release From Soul Ties:

Father God, I speak for every part of myself known and unknown. I

repent, and I choose to forgive __________(name). I repent for every

ungodly soul/spirit tie that was made through this person, also through

any ungodly, blasphemous, immoral, satanic union that has taken

place. I repent of any sin that was committed during this relationship,

bonds, or interconnection we had on all physical, and or spiritual

realms and on all dimensions of time and space. Father God I ask You

to forgive me for having any anger, resentment, for the vexation in my

soul, and for all bitterness that has taken root deep within the areas of

my soul. Forgive me for having tormenting thoughts and feelings

towards ___________; for any resentment, hidden bitterness, grudges

or any type of grievances towards them. Forgive me, Father God for

holding onto unforgiveness, and for backbiting/malicious, and gall

words spoken about them and for all gossip about them. Forgive me

for holding onto rejection, having feelings of abandonment, betrayal,

and for all offense about this past/ongoing relationships. Forgive me

Father for all jealousy, anxiety, all discontentedness, and all grudges

that I have, also for all types of manipulation that I did including trying

to control this relationship in any way type or form.

Father God I am tired, and weary from carrying this burden, so I am

handing ________ to You completely, for in Your word it states in 1

Peter 5:7 we are to cast all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

And then in Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to Me, all you who labor and are

heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and

learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest

for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.

In Jesus mighty name I break and nullify all curses,

oaths,declarations, hexes, vexes, shamanism, voodoo that

________may have spoken over me known or unknown or I have

spoken over them I apply the blood of Jesus over every word in all

realms, timelines and in space in Jesus name. I ask Father God to

take these words that have been spoken by my parts and theirs and I

ask You to wash them with the blood of Jesus. I ask Father God to

restore all words that You have spoken over me and sing over me.

I now break off all ungodly soul ties that were spiritually, physically,

sexually, mentally, emotionally in Jesus' mighty name, I ask this.

I now ask for the blood of Jesus to be applied to this soul tie that I

made with _________. Father God, I ask You to sever the cord

connecting me to this person with the Sword of the Spirit. I now bind

all demonic attachments, and all those that have transferred to me, by

the authority; that Jesus has given me. I command all evil spirits that

came through this soul/spirit tie to go to the feet of Jesus NOW! I now

loose the power of the Kingdom of God within me, and all my parts

and throughout my whole system.

I ask Father God as in Joel 2:25 to restore all the years that

locusts have eaten away and for complete restoration throughout

my whole system. I ask You to saturate my silver cord with the

blood of Jesus. I also ask Father to remove any foreign DNA from

my body and my parts, I ask for all to be restored in Jesus name. I

also ask for any silver cord entanglements to be untangled in

Jesus name, and for it all to go back to the original

person/persons. Father I ask for You to seal, with the blood of

Jesus, all doorways, back doors, hidden trap doors,and all

portals, and anything that was put within my system that I am

unaware of. In Jesus name, Amen


Paul L. Cox

Kanaan Ministries: Amanda Buys

Pastor Vladimir Savchuk

Elim Pentecostal Ministries

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